lavenderandrue

Omegaverse-specific opt-ins

• Any kind of gender fuckery- gender play, dynamicplay, consensual feminization, transdynamic or interdynamic characters, whatever you're feeling, especially if it gives (a) character(s) gender euphoria!
  
• Any genitals- there are some great tags here about various genital shapes/configurations for different dynamics and I'm cool with using any of them or none of them! I'd be particularly interested in worldbuilding around how presentation actually works for various styles of omegaverse genitals- feel free to serve that alongside PWP if you'd like!
  
• Any kind of nontraditional omegaverse dynamics (based on various animals, etc.)- again, so many fun tags, I am down for any of them! Clownfish omegaverse sounds particularly fun but I am interested in whatever story you want to tell.
  
• Kemonomimi- I like animal ears/traits! I am perfectly fine without them, but catboys, dogboys, etc. could be fun, whether or not they have the behaviors or other features (barbed dick, etc) of that animal.
  
• Xeno genitals (including xeno genitals just Being There in an otherwise normal SVSSS/PIDW world)- cloacas, tentadicks, give me whatever!
  
• Eggpreg- I love wingfic and monsterfucking. I would also be 100% into, like, "omegas are regular humans who just randomly lay eggs in PIDW because Airplane."
  
• Worldbuilding that gets into the mundane aspects of omegaverse- in general I love worldbuilding that goes "hey so how would The Porniverse actually, like, function, like what is the infrastructure here". The only exception would be my DNW for focus on bigotry/oppression/dysphoria- I'm fine with omegaverse gender inequality being an element, but I'm more interested in other aspects (ex. if public sex is totally normal, are there norms around what's acceptable for that? Is semipublic suddenly super kinky because you're NOT letting people see? Are there designated areas where you can or can't fuck? etc.)
  
• Modern AUs/combining omegaverse with other AUs- other than the few specific AUs I DNW (cop/military, reincarnation, soulmate, high school, crossovers/fusions), I'm fine with taking, say, modern cultivation or historical or sci-fi and making it also omegaverse.
  
• Mpreg (though I DNW actual on-screen babies for a main ship)- the possibility of pregnancy, lactation kink, men actually being pregnant, and worldbuilding around mpreg being a thing are all great.

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General opt-ins

• Ass to mouth, ass to vagina- For omegaverse specifically, if attention isn't drawn to whatever is going on with toys/genitals in various holes being Unsanitary (beyond a brief "that's dirty??!? (oh shit that feels good)" I am good with whatever.
  
• Boot kink/boot worship- I love boot kink please give me boot kink. Also anything to do with shoes or heels. Yes even that.
  
• Feet- toe sucking doesn't particularly interest me but I don't mind it, and I like footjobs!
  
• Feminization/gender play in general, as long as it's consensual kink and not actual punishment/noncon body mod
  
• Food-related kinks that aren't feederism- nantaimori is fun and I'm down for related eating food off of someone type stuff! I'm down for figging too.
  
• Gory/cannibalism imagery, macro/micro or vore imagery- I normally opt-in for these actually happening on page but I'm not interested in that for this specific exchange. I'm very okay with characters having freaky fantasies about being swallowed/living inside someone's body/carving out their ribs, though!
  
• Kink negotiations- I get why a lot of people DNW this and it does bug me when characters who shouldn't know them use modern terms, but in some contexts it can be really hot! I really like a gentle dom checking in for color in a modern AU or someone needing a break and tapping out because they got overwhelmed. I also enjoy un(der)negotiated kink, though!
  
• Monsterfucking- I have VERY few limits
  
• Pet play
  
• Size difference- as long as there is no injury or gore, feel free to give blorbo a qiankun pussy/asshole that can fit Giant Monster Dong
  
• Spit kink- and fluids in general, except watersports
  
• Sounding- including with things that should not be going up a urethra

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Omegaverse likes

SVSSS is so great for omegaverse, especially worldbuilding filling in the blanks of how the world would actually function. I'm particularly interested in how it would affect cultivation- are certain designations more inclined to have cultivation potential, or stereotyped that way? Are there structures in place for newly-presented disciples? What kinds of assumptions do people have about those in power- does everyone think the sect leader must be an alpha? Is he openly an omega because they're considered the most powerful or revered? Is he an alpha who's assumed to be an omega because he's big and strong? I don't have any particular deeply-held headcanons about this, but I think YQY and SJ's designations, especially in relation to each other, are always really interesting, even in a work that's not necessarily about them. I'm also fascinated by the idea of demons having a separate set of designations, or expectations for designations, and maybe even LBH having both a human and demon presentation. I'm good with traditional English omegaverse names being used or Chinese names (qianyuan for alpha/kunze for omega/zhongyong for beta).
Some other things I find really fun in omegaverse:

• Excessive amounts of slick/come, comeplay
  
• Public or semipublic sex, especially if the characters are just so horny they can't take it
  
• Heat/rut lowering inhibitions and making people's true desires come to the surface. Not so much "so horny they ignore other people's consent", but "so horny they make really terrible decisions/can't go on unless they have dubcon undernegotiated sex with the person they're secretly attracted to".
  
• Characters in heat/rut being absolutely insatiable, no refractory period, multiple orgasms, maybe even requiring multiple people or toys to keep them satisfied
  
• Scenting, especially as self-reassurance or staking a claim on someone you've chosen. I don't have any particular feelings either way on omegaverse characters smelling like fancy candles or perfumes- I think it's fun when the creator is having fun with it but I don't, like, NEED elaborate descriptions of a character's scent, I just like knowing that their love interest(s) are obsessed with it. It can also be a lot closer to regular scent kink where they just smell like musk/normal bodily odors, or closer to what a real animal's scent glands would produce!
  
• Nesting, especially as part of freak4freak obsessive behavior- stealing clothes, surreptitiously scenting someone, etc. Characters who aren't necessarily omegas making nests.
  
• Biting, mating bites- the flavor of mating bites I most enjoy is when they cause some kind of low-level psychic or empathic connection, but I also like when they're purely symbolic. I also really like characters showing them off, really wanting to bite down on the person they're not supposed to have feelings for, biting again on top of the scar... For worldbuilding around them, I generally prefer it if mating bonds between any designation are possible, even if rare/not thought to be possible; if the bite goes both ways, and has to go both ways to take; and if it's possible to have bites from multiple people, maybe in different locations, but I'm good with anything! I like the possessiveness and the way it's making a choice- even if it's so instinctual that the character doing it isn't really in control, they just want that person SO BADLY.
  
• Pregnancy and/or lactation. I love pregnancy kink, especially when they're SO WEIRD ABOUT IT. I think that lactation kink and blood drinking and cannibalism all have An Intersection and I love seeing that explored in symbolism. Wanting to provide for someone, or give them something that's of you and will sustain them... Also like, it's just hot.
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SFW/general likes

• Polyamory! OT3s or OT4s are my faves but I also enjoy polycules where not everyone is dating everyone else and they're cool with that.
  
• Trans characters and T4T ships in any direction. I prefer the focus to be on gender euphoria or for the character to just happen to be trans rather than a focus on dysphoria!
  
• WLW, including genderbend. Please feel free to make my faves lesbians!
  
• Any kind of AU where one or more of the blorbos is some kind of cool monster, including fun worldbuilding; any fantasy or sci-fi AU in general; fun monster/plant descriptions
  
• Fakeout makeout/kissing as camouflage; accidental kiss; give me all your goofy romcom and/or action movie kiss tropes!
  
• Non-sexual intimacy; bathing/washing; hair brushing/hair care in general; cuddling, lazy mornings in bed, fluff without plot/slice of life vibes
  
• Touch-starved characters getting touch and how they handle it (Badly is very much an option); cuddle pollen/magical forced proximity tropes; really any kind of forced proximity, including huddling for warmth/there was only one bed/trapped in a box...
  
• Identity porn, especially masquerades. I am such a sucker for masquerades. In love with the mark (whether it's a con, an assassin, or something else) and having to keep your true identity/purpose a secret. Falling in love with someone online you're pretty sure is a catfish.
  
• Epistolary! I know it's not everyone's favorite format but I always really enjoy it, whether it's letters or texts or something else.
  
• Fancy, pretty, detailed clothes; cool character designs in AUs; putting the blorbos in cute outfits, whether that's in art or in descriptions in writing.
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NSFW Likes

• Switching; “unconventional” top/bottom or Dom/sub dynamics (stoic warrior who's super subby my absolute beloved). Ships that usually have one dynamic trying out a different one, whether or not they actually enjoy the experience.
  
• Sappy emotional sex; praise kink; body worship; scar kissing; pet names
  
• Glove kink; sensation play, especially with silk/satin or involving mild sensory deprivation
  
• Monsterfucking; oviposition/eggpreg; tentacles; xeno genitals
  
• The specific intersection of exhibitionism and silence kink and sex toys under clothing that is having to Be Normal while immensely horny and secretly getting pleasured; magic onahole; linked arousal; semipublic sex
  
• Wet and messy; outdoor sex; desperate horniness; frotting, scissoring, tribbing, thigh riding; thigh fucking, non-penetrative sex in general
  
• Edging; orgasm control; forced orgasm; chastity devices
  
• Overstimulation; multiple orgasms; squirting; prostate milking
  
• Lactation; nipple play; pregnancy; breeding kink
  
• Coming untouched; coregasms; premature ejaculation
  
• BDSM; bondage, especially predicament bondage; verbal bondage/subs being very good and staying where they’re put; boot kink; roleplay
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Omegaverse-specific DNW

• "True/Fated Mates"; imprinting at first sight, biological imperatives to mate a specific stranger- I am fine with biological imperatives in other ways (to breed, for example) but would prefer if characters had agency to choose who they want to fuck. They can be like "oh no that's the hottest guy I've ever seen, I think I'll die if I don't fuck him," as long as they will not actually die, if that makes sense.
  
• Dehumanization outside the bedroom; I'm fine with it within the bedroom, especially for specific ships where humiliation/degradation makes sense (anything where Shen Jiu Is There). I DNW worldbuilding where omegas (or another designation) are seen as property, subhuman, pets, breeding stock, free use, or otherwise expected to put out whenever, but one specific omega being free use because they love it is fine, someone calling their omega lover "just a milk cow/breeding bitch/etc" as dirty talk is fine, and characters kinking on the idea of all of (designation) being free use/pets/etc is fine.
  
• Anal birth- It's just the actual birth being part of worldbuilding. I am fine with a cis male omega (or alpha, or whatever) being pregnant from anal and not magically growing a vulva, and it not being specified how the birth will happen or referring to it being a c-section (I am also fine with them magically growing a vulva, though, especially if a heavenly demon is involved, because they could and would). I'm also fine with Shen Yuan panicking about the idea of anal birth being a thing.
  
• Noncon bitching/studding/feminization/body modification- for all of these, consensual or dubcon is fine! I just don't want someone being obviously forced to do any of these things, struggling, begging someone to stop etc. or it being used as punishment for something.
  
• Pack/bond rejection- by this I'm referring to the tropes where Blorbo is either actually rejected by other members of their pack, or pack bonds/other bonds don't "take" somehow and cause physical/emotional harm. A partially-formed mating bond causing issues like telepathic/empathic bonds not quite working right is fine.
  
• Kidfic- wanting to build a family and references to offscreen kids are fine unless stated, I just DNW the actual baby/kid being a major element. Kid OCs that aren't the ship's are also fine!

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SVSSS DNW

• SJ, SY and YQY as adopted or bio relatives
  
• SJ+SY as the same person (bodysharing ok)
  
• Works set in canon where it's stated or implied that SJ's canon abuse of LBH didn’t happen or wasn’t actually abuse (ex. the tea SJ poured on LBH's head was medicinal/SJ didn’t know about the fake manual). AU settings where their dynamic differs or canon divergences where SJ doesn’t end up abusing LBH for reasons that are explored (ex. SY interferes) are ok.
  
• YQY as a villain/obstacle for other ships; SY finding YQY creepy or disliking him; dark/yandere/gaslighting YQY outside of Qijiu requests
  
• LBH aged up to be 18+ pre-Abyss (no Abyss AUs ok)
  
• Sub bottom SJ; sub SJ; SJ pregnant or as a parent* see note on Qijiu requests!
  
• dom Bingge in Binggeyuan (sub top is fine, dom Bingge in Binggeliu is fine)
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SFW DNW

• Cop or military AUs; noncanon sex trafficking, slavery, child abuse; if canon, heavy focus on those elements
  
• Incest, including adopted; relatives sharing a lover
  
• Grooming (the psychological kind- I love the caretaking kind)
  
• Large age gaps in romantic ships where one partner is under 18; older characters having/struggling with feelings for characters under 18
  
• Detailed vomit or GI illness
  
• High school AUs
  
• Unrequested crossovers/fusions
  
• Genderbends other than making M/M(/M) ships F/F/(F) (temporary genital swaps are fine; making characters nonbinary is fine)
  
• Soulmate tropes
  
• Reincarnation AUs
  
• Nonconsensual infidelity as angst
  
• Terminal or severe illness, addiction, or substance abuse, including fantasy substances; eating disorders; characters struggling to breathe due to panic attacks or illness; pandemics
  
• Focus on bigotry, oppression, or dysphoria; worldbuilding of societal issues is ok, but DNW omega oppression, etc. as the main conflict
  
• Unwanted pregnancy; graphic birth or pregnancy complications, except eggpreg
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NSFW DNW

• Noncon or CNC (fuck or die, sex pollen etc ok if all parties end up enjoying it)
  
• Anyone being pressured into sex/feeling like they can't say no
  
• Somnophilia- dream sex is fine though!
  
• Explicit underage (<18) sex or masturbation, including time travel, de-aging, etc. (ok if no age is stated or inferred, ex. set during an era of canon when ages are ambiguous)
  
• Age play; mommy/daddy as a petname (shizun/laoshi is fine and mommy kink adjacent vibes are fine); incest roleplay (gege is fine, I just don't want "what if we were related" type dirty talk); feederism; scat; enemas; watersports
  
• Sex with realistic animals
  
• Anal or PIV that causes injury; painful sex that’s unenjoyable (references to canon are ok, someone bumping their head, etc is ok)
  
• Gore; vore (imagery, dreams etc very ok, just DNW it actually happening for this exchange)
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